Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts

Sunday, October 10, 2010

10 Years Later...

Unaware of what the future would hold for me and my first/only former boyfriend Mr Tony Clark, I along with two travel companions braved the 10+ hour flights from Korea (via Malaysia for another great friend's wedding) to New Zealand in what was our summer of 1999. Amber Ambrose (my dear sister) and Tim Bergman (my colleague and good friend) had an absolutely amazing experience planned by my dear Tony. Well... needless to say, sparks flew at that time and Tony stopped by to visit me in Korea later that year... staying of course with his new buddy, Tim. When Tim left ICS he joined up with YWAM and we've managed to stay in contact through the years: the weddings, the births, the moves... so you can imagine our delight when we found out he and his wonderful family were going to be in NZ while we were here!!! So the Bergmans made a special trip down to Wellington for the reunion and we had a great time catching up, reminiscing, playing, praying and just enjoying a friendship that has spanned a decade and several continents.

The night they arrived was the night of Hunter's "Kindy Disco"... he had actually been talking about it, so being good sports, we all went along to support the Johnsonville West Kindergarten. It was a fun hour and a half of inexpensive food and loud music...

 It was such a treat to have girls in the house... Abigail is between Hunter and Helena so Helena just followed everything she did! Abby wanted a sheep on her face so of course Helena got one too... and this was only within the first few hours they met.
Hunter got shy during the dancing part of the disco, but not the girls - they rocked!!! You can see the little pink dots in the back!!!
These guys had been in a tropical paradise for the past 3 months - Wellington in October is a bit chilly to jump into... so we made several fires and shared long-sleeved clothing... it was funny because even we had started to get used to no fires.
Since they'd already been travelling all over the country, we decided not to take a day-trip which required more driving... instead we headed to our favourite place - Te Papa!!!
We spent heaps of time enjoying the discovery centre together...
then over to Petone for fish and chips on the beach!
Briana is in there somewhere!!!
After church on Sunday we came back home to a warm bowl of chili and played games with the Burrow's family until the evening service. "Uncle Tim" was a great war facilitator - but then again he was the PE teacher when we met.
Helena really did love having Abby and Briana over to match her pink levels.
Thanks Tim and Nelly for making the effort to come down - we all really enjoyed meeting the Bergman's as a family and we're looking forward to meeting number 3 sometime somewhere in God's great big world!!!

Monday, September 20, 2010

TOOWOOMBA... ba da boomba!!!

Okay... this is going back a ways, but hey, the kids are napping and it's warm inside so here we go...

July 30...After about 48 hours in Taipei we were finally on our way in the direction of home. Well, we were heading in the same hemisphere at least... We had a fantastic flight from Taipei to Brisbane on Business Class!!!! OH YEAH!!! Actually, there was a bit of frustration at the Taipei side because we were on a codeshare flight and they said there were only 2 seats for us in Business Class... you can imagine - after that long haul from LA just hours before we were both ready for our rightly earned places in BC (this was Tony's official return to NZ flight so we get business tickets) then to be told we only had two spots!?! What were those poor kids going to do with themselves in Economy?!? Of course I said I'd take Hunter in Economy with me and leave Helena with baba if that were the case. Well, praise be to the God who cares about the little things - when we got to the gate they walked us right in to 4 seats in Business Class!!! YAHOO!!! And oh what a difference that made!


Pajama princess - the cutest little thing on the plane - hands down!!!
It was after 10pm when we got going so thankfully Hunter and Helena drifted right off into la la land and we parents got to enjoy a delicious meal and some uninterrupted entertainment (good priorities, eh... should've gone for uninterrupted sleep, but how often do I get to fly stretched out with my own movie and actually finish it?!?) And I really have to gloat a bit - the food is actually really yummy! I've only ever flown Business Class two times - on our way to Taiwan and now 5 years later on our way back - and oh, it was a nice trip!!!

Both kids slept for a good solid 6+ hours of the 9 hour flight so it was wonderful and restful! Hunter enjoyed his breakfast (as did Helena) and he even got to watch his own movie before we arrived in Australia!!!


So... Toowoomba!!! For those of you who have no idea where or what it is (like me before this trip) - it's a town located about 2 hours inland from Brisbane near the Gold Coast of Australia. Our dear friends Lucas and Justine Anstiss transplanted their family to this fine town about two years ago so this was a perfect chance for us to catch up and see their new life.

The four big kids would meet at the breakfast bar in the mornings and challenge each other to eat more or different foods... next visit they'll have to sit somewhere else though because I think baby Zander won't want to miss out on the action again - this time he was none the wiser!
Antonio is just about 6 months younger than Hunter and the two of them got on pretty well... we brought him a Lightning McQueen shirt from Taiwan so the boys shared their love of Cars!



Now this is the funny part... we thought we'd have a relaxing week catching up with old friends, exploring the region, basking in the Anstiss hospitality we've come to know and love... and of course we did get to experience all those things and more - much more! But Lucas had 'other plans' for his time off work to create a bonding experience with one of his closest friends... take a look at this...

When we arrived Lucas informed Tony that he wanted to build a shed in his backyard... yep - it was a kitset so it would probably only take a day or two right... yeah, right!!! Of course these guys couldn't just pop up a shed - they had to do it properly... so here we go... they first dug out a plot (after buying Tony some coveralls and gum boots)...
(they found a few treats in the process)

Then filled in the plot so it would be even...
then built a foundation from planks to insure proper ventilation.
They did start to get weary at times so they hired a few other workers, but most of the time it was just the two of them (or one of the two of them depending on what the day's activities held).
It was cold most days - but in the sun it was pleasant... yet with any household project we've ever encountered it always takes more time than you expect. This project took pretty much the week (well, admittedly they did have a bit of time off the shed intermittently)... but finally on Friday, August 6 they had something to show for their time together...
A NEW SHED!!!

Well done, guys! And though we laughed about it, you know, isn't it what friendship is about!?! It's not always about what I want or how I can be entertained. True friendship is living life together in community, helping each other - emotionally, spiritually and practically. We appreciate a rich relationship with this family because over the years we've visited them in their home, cooked and eaten meals together, sat around the source of warmth discussing work, marriage, parenting and how Jesus wants to help us in all those areas of our lives. And after this week in Toowoomba, Tony and Lucas now have a tangible memorial to the friendship they have been building for over 15 years! That's a pretty good week if you ask me. (then again, I wasn't outside hammering...)

And while the men were working on the shed or taking breaks from working on the shed there were plenty of other things going on during our week. This was hilarious! Keep in mind it was winter there, so although Tony and I did each get out for a couple of runs, it was much more appealing to do a workout video. So the first time I fired up my Jillian Michael's dvd Liberty came to join me before heading off to kindy... honestly, she did most of the workout in her school clothes while I sweated alongside her... then for the rest of the week she kept asking "Jen, when are we going to exercise" Talk about accountability!!! One day she even dressed up in her gear with pigtails and everything... we had a blast!
And on August 4, thus said Miss Liberty turned 5!!!
I made her some pink pancakes for breakfast then she went to kindy in the morning and the Anstiss's did a 'normal' day - while we headed back toward Brisbane to hit an outlet mall to update my winter wardrobe...  Now anyone who knows me knows that I really am not that good at shopping for clothes - Tony pretty much has to drag me out (unless I'm with my mom or sister)... but I was determined (and desperate - really, I did not have much in the way of winter clothes since our 5 years in the subtropics)... and I struck gold at a shop where I got some nice things for just $29 each!!! What a bargain!!! Then anyone knows that feeling when you have tasted success you just want more... Anyway, we stopped the spree and made it back to Toowoomba to join Liberty's birthday celebration at the restaurant of her choice - Sizzler!!! I haven't eaten at a Sizzler in years... but there was plenty of food for the kids to eat and plenty of healthy options (why was I just drawn to the bread pudding at the dessert bar???)!
Happy 5th Birthday!!!

On August 5, I got a special treat... Justine helped Tony look after the kids (well, he was on shed duty) while I got away for almost 4 hours by myself... I came back with a new hairstyle after a wonderfully relaxing trip to the hairdresser!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!

And then on August 6... we got to celebrate my actual birthday with a lovely day at a women's Bible study Justine goes to and a delicious chocolate cake (my new favorite made with beetroot) before a fun dinner out with Tony... spoiled!!! (notice the hair...highlights, color... best 'do I've had in years!!!)
We went to a place called "Chutney Mary's" and absolutely stuffed ourselves on the Royal Feast!!! Good thing we had our cake before we went out!!! We thought about going to the movies too but hey, you gotta remember those kids don't sleep in!

For our last full day together, we had originally thought about a day trip, but then the reality of driving for hours in separate cars caused us to come up with a more creative solution: A PARK CRAWL!!! For anyone who's ever heard of a "Pub Crawl" or a "Cafe Crawl" (you go from place to place to place enjoying the specialities of each) this is where I got the idea (though I've never participated in either before)... Toowoomba has lots of lovely parks but we hadn't been to too many so we decided to hit three of their favorites... The kids had a blast and we got more quality time together. It was really a fun way to spend a Saturday morning!
And of course the traditional pancake meal with the Anstiss' took went to a whole new level with Lucas and Justine preparing them on an outdoor grill... way to go!!! Aren't you just drooling thinking about it!?!
The kids loved them so much that they in fact ate most of them leaving the dads a bit unfulfilled, but I think the overall experience served them well!
We had to get the tourist shot at Picnic Point overlooking the land to the east of the town... it was such a beautiful day that we shed a few layers and enjoyed the sunshine!

Justine and Liberty just hanging out while the boys were climbing around (I think Helena must've been climbing around too... or stuck in her stroller for running off).

This was Hunter's first 'slumber party' week - he slept on Antonio's trundle bed... what a great deal! The two really ended up working well together... it was fun. Thanks, again, Anstiss family for your amazing hospitality... we're looking forward to seeing you in NZ next time!!!

And then, like all good things, on Sunday, August 8 it was time to leave the comforts of the familiar and get back on another airplane... after these hugs and kisses we were actually going to arrive on home soil...
(oh but let me say, travelling Business Class for only 3 hours on a smaller plane is totally different from the big international flight - but at least the food was still so yum!!! We even got ice cream!!! YAHOO!)

Friday, September 10, 2010

Inspirational Morning

Whenever we get back to California Tony tries to see his good buddy Mr Cash. Depending on family commitments and other plans this is often just for one meal... but this trip back, these two high school buddies got to see each other almost once a week! A basketball game (maybe two), their kids' birthday party, lunch at our place, a hang out in the park... and an early morning hike! Way to go guys... way to make it happen!!!

It's always fun to see these two together again... hard to believe they've kept in touch for over 15 years!!!


Now kids, don't try this at home...


Tony enjoyed his scenic trip so much that he took us out to the same area later in the day! The kids enjoyed looking at the tide pools and we enjoyed just being outside together.

Not quite the Christmas card material we may have hoped for... but close!

The Good Ole Orange County Fair!!!

Last year Tony took me to the OC Fair for my birthday celebration and we had such a good time we thought it would be fun to take the kids along this time. Being the frugal folks we are though we went on 'canned food' day where we got in 'free' by raiding my parents pantry. We also met up with our new buddy Mikey - it was something of a birthday celebration with him! We all had a blast together... we may just make this a family tradition!
Again we went for the monster smoked turkey leg - a healthy option for the kids, of course!


Actually we did bring in some simple sandwiches and fruit so the kids had something healthy and we could use our 'lunch money' on something more interesting like ice cream.
Miss Cheeky/ I mean "Cheesy"
After our snacking - we thought it'd be fun to catch some rodeo action. This particular event was called "Extreme Rodeo"... and oh boy, we only lasted through about 3 of the competitions since it was a bit too extreme for the kids (plus the loud music didn't help the cause much - our kids are a bit squeamish when it comes to loud noise). Seriously, these guys were nuts - man versus wild beasts - absolutely nuts!

We took our kids to have their own 'extreme' adventure in the playland... well, it was extremely fun for Hunter who was at the age/height to enjoy many of the attractions, but extremely frustrating for poor Mei Mei who was too young/small to ride. What a bummer for her - but by the next time we come, she'll be just in the right size bracket.

Our 'cheesy' kids

More Reunions...

Last year when we went back to CA for a visit I attended my 20th high school reunion! Boy was that interesting (or not)... this summer I had more 'reunions' but this time they were much more organic and meaningful.

I'm pretty sure Jane was at our wedding 8 years ago... but certainly I had not met her 5-year old son! What great timing then that they were holidaying in CA the same time we were!!! We did meet up a couple of times and the kids enjoyed each other at the Downtown HB markets. She also helped organize a mini-reunion which you'll see at the end of the post. Hopefully by the next time we're in OC she and Terry and Max will be permanent residents again (cuz I'd love to hang out at their place downtown)!!!

Every time we come home we meet up with Danny and Pearl Cash... well, Cindy is Danny's sister who graduated with me. After probably 20 years, we finally got to catch up at a family birthday party! I love this town!


It's been about 10 years since I've seen my basketball buddy, Deb. At that time her youngest twins were only toddlers - now - tweenies!!! Wow how time flies!


Inevitably we don't get to see everyone we want to nor spend enough time with most people - thus the challenge of the home visits. However, Robyn was very persistent and as a result we did get to meet her super cool husband and enjoy a hilarious evening catching up!
Barb is a dear woman I worked with during one of my in-between stages that saw me back at my parent's home a while ago. Funnily enough, when I returned from Korea, she also came to work for mom's driving school so we were colleagues twice in two very different jobs. I am always inspired by her enthusiasm, energy and optimism so it was an honor to hang out with her for a burrito one afternoon.

Okay so the big mini reunion was between 4 high school buddies who now live in 3 different states and a fourth country... Here's Julie and Preston (Jane's twin).
And here's Duane with Cameron, Julie, Jane with Max and me with my two bundles... 21 years post high school... what a kick to get together again. Maybe next time we'll leave the kids at home and have uninterrupted conversations... but hey, this is where we're all at so it's fun for the families to get to know each other too. Thanks everyone for making it happen.